Clients Who Stalk (I)
Let’s talk about clients who stalk. Boundaries-violators. The guys who won’t take no for an answer. I’ve been fortunate in that I’ve only had about a half-dozen of these fuckers in my career (like...
View ArticleClients Who Stalk (II): This One Sends Spies
So, yes, let me tell you about my new stalking client… Since I started working again in San Francisco, I’ve written at length about the ways in which the clients are different from my clients in New...
View ArticleEdelweiss
I have to write about my last client. Beautiful Persian Zoroastrian man, immaculately dressed, who brought me olives, grapes, a pear, and a pomegranate. He was a physicist by profession. He wanted to...
View ArticleThe “Lost Wallet,” and Other Updates
First, I am feeling much better. I’ve been weaning off the librium (in the hospital, they were giving me two or three pills per day) and today will be my last dose (yay!). I take it before bed...
View ArticleThe Story of the Spanko and the “Session Jar.”
This one is going to be short…but I had to write it down, because it’s a new one (that’s the thing about the fetish Biz–you think you’ve seen it all, but you never have, and presumably never will)....
View ArticleClient Misconceptions
Allow us to discuss client misconceptions. I know these because they have been expressed to me frequently for about ten years now. The men have spoken them into my ear. I know about that of which I...
View ArticleA Wonderful Client
I just wanted to express appreciation for a great, generous man today. I left rehab (I’m still going to outpatient rehab for my drinking problem) early to attend a session with a new guy. I came home,...
View ArticleSwimsuit Humiliation
Finally! A post about my job. I have a guy who has a fantasy about something that happened to him, and he wants a re-enactment. Specifically: I needed to wear a one-piece swimming suit and a swim mask...
View ArticleAbout Hobbyists
Let’s talk about “Hobbyists.” Hobbyists, for those who don’t know, are men who frequent sex workers and then review and gossip about them online. They usually hang out on a website called The Erotic...
View ArticleThings Clients Have Said to Me
The following are a sample of things clients have said to me. My thoughts are in italics. “Does your family know?” So rude. Does your family know? “What does your boyfriend think of all this?“ “But...
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